After many attempts of blogging what’s on my mind, this is my first blog where I am actually blogging about my thoughts and what I have been thinking for a while. Well coming to why I choose this topic, it just because lately I have been given a chance to meet new people or asked to decide on a person’s personality / character just by seeing his/ her pictures. Must say I have still not been able to decide how can one know anything about someone by just seeing picture or meeting them for once.
In our day to day life we meet hundreds of people who are out there, there will be a stage in life where we call everyone we meet as our friends and as the life goes on that list keeps reducing and the one who has seen you through all the stages of your life is someone who is your actual friend.
Generally, it takes 2 years to know someone. So if you survive through these 2 years with someone then there are chances that they remain Friend throughout your life. I have heard friends cribbing about the mistakes they made trusting someone, who used them when needed.
Firstly my dear friends are you that lame to trust someone who shares their whole life history on the day they met you? Come on isn’t it obvious that they are just in need of sympathy and nothing else? Who the hell would show their weakness to you right on their first date? Secondly, there are hundreds of people who are fighting their problems on their own who told you to interfere in their business when you have no clue about their roots?
You really cant know someone by their looks or by their status on FB or chats on Messengers this is the fact accept it.
Few reasons:
- Pictures are taken on occasions and there are many things happening when a picture is shot. So if you think the person looks decent it might be because it carried his emotions that he was going through 6 minutes earlier.
- When chatting, as I said earlier, there are many things happening around them and there are so many emojis (emotional smileys) available that in fact confuses the brain to predict what someone means in their statements, so we assume that they might be sad / happy based one the Emoji’s
- Status on FB, Well if you think that someone is really putting up their status of what’s on their mind, then I must tell you are being fooled. People these days use FB as a source to seek attention; there are hundreds of people out there who are stupid enough to fall for the trap and text you immediately.
These were few of my observations on how people judge someone based on the social media. And now coming to presentation, not everyone who dresses up decently (for instance Girls – Salwar, boys – formals etc) are decent. I usually feel the dressing carries people away. What really matters is not what they ware but what they carry themselves as.
I just feel be yourself and don’t let others rule your brain. Everyone are capable of seeing through a person, decisions are in your hand and once decided don’t blame them. Trusting was your choice but keeping it or not was their choice. Don’t go by they way they look, nor by the way they treat you on the first meet, learn to know the other persons point of view and make sure you know enough to trust someone. To those few, who are psychic and can determine what someone is by just looking at them like me, when you know that someone is making a mistake, try to warn, if they don’t listen that’s ok. Stay Calm and let them make mistakes because only then will they know that they were wrong.
P.S: These are just completely my messed up thoughts if it was useful to you then great, if you think I am wrong or if you have any suggestions, feedbacks anything at all to discuss please comment below / Mail me on charitha27@gmail.com
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