As The year 2016 comes to an end in few hours I am happy to have accomplished all my resolutions even if there were Ups and Down’s. It has been a journey of happiness and self-reflection on the subjects that were not meeting my ideology. As this trip comes to an end, I am happy to have fought hard for what I deserve, apologized to the people whom I have done wrong, Letting go ego, because they matter to you and learned a lot about people and mainly on myself.
Realisations :Â
- Social Media is a curse, not a boon: Yes, Social media is a curse. You might share your moments for you to look back at them or you might use Social media to connect with people. But the majority of individuals out there are watching you, feeling jealous, and not happy to see you grow. Well, this leads to more negativity than to Positive Energy.
- Socialize but don’t lose your identity:Â I met a lot of people in the last few years, and it was tough to fit into a group or feel one among them. I thought I was wired wrong or that to fit in you need to be like them which I never could be, You can never be someone who you are not. There is no reason to Fit in, in the end, I am back to loving my Solitude.
- Remove Unlucky and Unhappy people from your life: These people only spread Unhappiness and get you drained emotionally even if you are trying to help them.
- Don’t let people interfere in your personal Affairs : This is one of the Biggest realisation of 2016, I was able to reflect on the history and see that many friendships broke because of a 3rd person, no one is going to help you save a relationship they just say in words but they wish for the of that friendship out of jealousy or sometimes out of Selfishness – ” No one should get what I don’t have” Attitude.
With all these realizations’ I am now ready to start another year with loads of hope and strength to fight again! The only difference now is that I like me the way I am and I don’t need to feel I fit in!
Thank you 2016 for making me stronger, Welcome 2017 let’s do it 🙂
C. A. Stubborn Pen 