The Laws of Love: Creating the relationship of your dream

There is only one happiness in life, to love and to be loved- George Sand

As the quotation goes, life is all about giving and receiving love. We work hard, make living and in the end, all that we need is love to survive. The reality is that the quality of your relationships depends mainly on one thing: YOU. In order to create the right relationship or start a fresh relationship, one has to throw the baggage out, yes every individual comes with a baggage and one cannot create a new relationship carrying the past on his back. Every relationship is a new journey, you cannot compare it to the previous one or to your friends. Good relationships are not an accident, they are built with patience and persistence.

Sometimes we may meet a person who we believe is right for us, yet because of what we’ve learned about relationships and who we’ve become over the years, we ruin the opportunity and what might have been a great relationship with the right person becomes another sad ending. The kind of person you are at every moment is primarily responsible for the status of your relationship or your lack of relationship.

The world of deep, loving, rewarding, comforting relationships is a unique world, a world that very few inhabit. The most useful piece of learning for the uses of life is to unlearn what is untrue.

This book rightly explains the 14 laws of love that one has to follow in any relationship:

1. Universal law controls everything.
2. Everything is a state of constant change
3. Your philosophy determines the quality of your relationship
4. Relationship only thrives in a safe space
5. A successful relationship requires the light from the past.
6. The universe is perfect and is always working to benefit you.
7. Your relationship will provide you what you need.
8. If you would be loved, love yourself
9. The happiness you seek can only come from within you
10. Your relationship will endure when you make it your primary priority
11. Harmony strengthens; disharmony weakens
12. An ideal relationship can only exist within complete trust
13. Every action produces a result. That is in exact accord with the action.
14. You are the author of every next moment.

The author nicely explains each law with examples and also helps you understand why things are not working with your parents or partners or even friends. In the end its all about loving and being loved.